Sunday, February 28, 2010

Guest Post: Shoe Shortcuts by Cheryl Burke

Shoe Shortcuts for a Budget Bride 


 Celebrity Ballroom Dancer Cheryl Burke Reveals How to Feel Confident & Comfortable without Breaking the Bank

Of the seemingly endless things you need to spend money on for your wedding day, your shoes shouldn’t be one of them. As the economy struggles to regain its footing and many brides find themselves on a tight budget, some are trying to find ways to cut back and save cash.

So, all of you brides on budgets, what’s the best way to save money and be comfortable, you ask? Wear something you already have! If you don’t have or want white shoes, don’t panic. Many of today’s brides are wearing colorful, patterned shoes that don’t fit into the traditional bridal mold. How about those pink stiletto sandals you had to have but only wore once? Or those girly pumps with the flower on the toe that you feel silly wearing to work? And for the sentimental bride, what about the shoes you wore on your first date with your groom? Even if you’ve worn the shoes one hundred times and they look a little tired, you can still spruce them up to shine as good as new.
There are simple, wallet-friendly steps every bride can take to extend the life of her shoes, look fabulous and save money. Here are some of the steps I take to keep my shoes in perfect condition from one dance to the next.
  • Clean before you polish. Dirt and other debris can easily get stuck in leather shoes. Be sure to clean your shoes to remove excess dirt and debris prior to polishing. And while you’re polishing, you may want to share some with your groom so he can make sure his shoes look shiny and new for the big day as well.
  • Whiten your whites. If you plan to wear white shoes you already own, consider applying KIWI’s Shoe Whitener to make them look newer. You’ll be able to cover up any scuffs or dark marks, hiding all of the evidence that you nabbed those shoes from your closet, not the store.
  • Protect before you wear. While you hope for blue skies and sun on your wedding day, if it does rain, make sure your shoes are protected. KIWI’s Protect-all Spray helps waterproof and protect your shoes against rain and stains. It can even be used on your groom’s tie to ensure he will be picture-perfect all day long.
  • Protect while storing. Don’t just throw your shoes on the floor of your closet – especially if you are planning on wearing them on your wedding day. Store shoes using a shoetree to help retain the shape of the leather. If a shoetree will not work (such as for strappy shoes), stuff the toe cap with newspaper or tissue. Never store or dry leather shoes near direct heat.
  • Be comfortable! Remember, you are going to be on your feet for most of your wedding day. To protect my feet on the dance floor, I use KIWI® SMILING FEET® clear gel inserts. KIWI SMILING FEET products can be put into any shoe – open-toe, closed-toe or stiletto – so you can pose for pictures all day, dance all night and not worry about foot pain. Visit www.KIWIsmilingfeet.com to learn more.

    For additional tips on how to keep your shoes bridal worthy, or for more information on the KIWI products I use, please visit www.KIWIcare.com.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

1 Month to Go!!!!

O.M.G!  I remember just posting that we were a year out.  Time has gone by so quickly.  J's getting deployed in a few days, so I'll have plenty of time to myself to finish all the projects that aren't done yet.

Here's what we have left to do.  I'll give you another update in two weeks.
- Finish playlist for DJ
- Make wedding day timelines
- Wrap bridal party and parent's gifts (actually I still need to buy them too)
- Put together programs (they're already printed)
- Make signs for drink dispensers
- Put together OOT bags/packets
- Buy insurance for wedding
- Have final meeting with all vendors
- Call people who didn't RSVP
- Make seating chart
- Pay final amounts of on all vendors
- Make favors
- Put together a wedding day emergency kit

I'm sure they're plenty of other little things I'm not thinking of, but those are the big ones.  Eek!

Friday, February 26, 2010

Reception Music List

I'm having a really hard time deciding on a lot of the important dances for the reception.  It was easy to come up with a must play and a do not play list, but I can not pinpoint the important songs.

I highly recommend you write a do-not play list for your DJ.  That way he doesn't play any songs that you absolutely hate or songs that were important to you and an ex.  A lot of people put dances like the Electric Slide on there, but I personally like most of those, so I put them on my must-play list.

Bridal Party Entrance

Couple's Entrance

First Dance
"Have I Told You Lately" -- Rod Stewart

Dinner
"Truly, Madly, Deeply" -- Savage Garden
"The Way You Look Tonight" -- Frank Sinatra
"Huckleberry" -- Tim McGraw
"She's in Love with the Boy" -- Trisha Yearwood
"Love Story" -- Taylor Swift
"Breakfast at Tiffanys" -- Deep Blue Something
"Everything I Do" -- Bryan Adams
"Your Song" -- Moulin Rouge
"My Girl" -- Temptations

Guest's First Dance
"I Got a Feeling" -- Black Eyed Peas

Cake Cutting
"How Sweet It Is" --

Bouquet Toss
"Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" -- Cyndi Lauper

Garter Toss

Last Dance

Dancing
"Electric Slide"
"Yeah" -- Usher
"Cha Cha Slide"
"Soulja Boy" -- Soulja Boy
"Honkey Tonk Badonkadonk" -- Trace Adkins
"Here for the Party" -- Gretchen Wilson
"Love Shack" -- B52s
"Come On Eileen" -- Dexy's Midnight Runners
"Ladies Love Country Boys" -- Trace Adkins
"Too Much Fun" -- Trace Adkins
"In Da Club" -- 50 Cent
"My Everything" -- 98 Degrees
"I Kissed a Girl" -- Katy Perry
"Jalapeno" -- Big & Rich
"Jitterbug" -- Wham!
"White Wedding" -- Aiden
"I Want You to Want Me" -- Cheap Trick
"Glamorous" -- Fergie
"Straight Up" -- Paula Abdul
"Apple Bottom Jeans" -- T-Pain

DO NOT PLAY
"Amazed" -- Lonestar
"YMCA" -- Village People
"Mambo #5" -- Lou Bega
"Respect" -- Aretha Franklin
"Ice Ice Baby" -- Vanilla Ice
"Macarena" -- Los Del Rio
Any Eminem
"Can't Get No Satisfaction" -- Rolling Stones
"Proud Mary" -- CCR
"U Can't Touch This" -- MC Hammer
Any Michael Jackson
"Good Riddance" -- Green Day
"Hey There Delilah" -- Plain White Ts

What are you using for the important songs at your reception?

Favorite Friday

Favorite Fridays


Jen at A Girl in  Pearls started a meme called Favorite Friday.  She's post a topic every Wednesday and then on Friday you post your answer to the topic.  So I figured I would participate.

This Week's Topic: Favorite Vacation Spot


Orlando!!!

Even though I'm from Orlando, we still love going over there.  We love going to theme parks and never get bored with them.  At least once a year, we drive down to Orlando and go to one of the Busch theme parks because we get in for free for being military.  The past couple of years, we've made our way over to Disney too, which we love.  This year we're planning on making two trips.

The first trip will be in June for Jason's birthday.  We'll probably go to Animal Kingdom and maybe Sea World.  Then in November, we'll probably go to Magic Kingdom (when there's less kiddos) and then Universal. 

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Final Vendor Meetings Schedule

I've now got all of the final vendor meetings scheduled except my florist and my venue.  I'm doing them all two weeks before the wedding, so that way it's close enough to where everyone knows what is going on, but not far enough away so that everyone forgets what was talked about at the meeting.

The first meeting I have is with my DJ.  By the time of that meeting, we need to have our entire playlist figured out so I can hand it over to him.  We also need to discuss the day of timeline.  We need to figure out when he's showing up and when he's leaving and also give him our timeline so he knows when to play certain songs and make announcements.

The next meeting is for my dress fitting.  I'm taking one of my bridesmaids with me so that she can learn how to bustle my dress.  Hopefully the dress will fit perfectly because we're cutting it close on time and I'm not sure if we'll have time to do more alterations.

The last meeting I have scheduled is with my photographer.  We need to go over the must-take list of photos.  At the suggestions of my coordinators, I'm also going to take some pictures of important family members to show her so she knows who is who on the wedding day.  We also need to finalize the day of timeline so we know what is going on at all times.

I originally  had a venue meeting planned, but then I got my job so I'm having to change it around.  I'm having a hard time rescheduling that because she wants me to be able to get from my office to the venue in half an hour.  During rush hour traffic, it's going to take at least an hour to get out there.  So hopefully she's willing to work with me because there is no way I can miss work to go out to our venue.  At our venue meeting we need to provide them with final numbers (not really sure why), order as many tables as we need, pay our final bill, and then go over any other details needed.

I'm working on scheduling the florist meeting and mock-up right now.  She's normally pretty available, so that shouldn't be a hard meeting to schedule.  She'll be bringing mock-ups of the bridesmaid's bouquets, which I can't wait to see.  I'm sure they're going to be gorgeous.  We also need to figure out what time she's going to drop off the flowers at the venue.

So, I've gotten those out of the way and now I just have to prepare for them.  I'm going to make packets for each vendor so they know where they're supposed to be and when they're supposed to be there.  I'll show them you as soon as they're finished.

Ceremony Music List

I am control freak very detail oriented, so I have to be in charge of the music the DJ is playing.  I'm not going to completely control what he plays, but I am going to give suggestions and decide on the important songs.

So, here's what I've come up with for the ceremony so far.  I'm still not 100% sure that I want our recessional song to be a modern song or whether I want to keep it traditional.  That's the area that I'm wavering on a little.

Prelude
"A Whole New World" -- Aladdin
"Can You Feel the Love Tonight" -- Lion King
"Seasons of Love" -- Rent

Bridal party entrance
"Jesu, Joy of Man's Desire"

Bride's entrance
"Canon in D"

Recessional
"Accidentally in Love" -- Counting Crows

What is the recessional for your wedding?

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Thrifty Thursday

Discounts
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Giveaways
Platinum Bridal Jewelry Set at GetMarried
$500 Gift Card to David's Bridal at GetMarried
Kitchenaid 10 Piece Cookware Set at GetMarried
Dinnerware Set at GetMarried
$25 Giftcard to Ten23 Designs at Every Last Detail
50 4x6 Photo Cards from Dolcetto Designs at Brenda's Wedding Blog
250 Sticker Giveaway at Travis & Sarah

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Real Wedding Wednesday: Jen & Jay

Jen's Rhode Island wedding came out beautifully and she did it with a lot of DIY projects.  Check out her blog, A Girl in Pearls, for even more gorgeous wedding inspiration.



What was your budget? 
We never really had a hard and set figure; for us it was more about not wanting to owe more than we could pay BEFORE the wedding. And we stayed true to that; come the day of our wedding, we had no outstanding balances and $0 in credit card charges. I think $30,000 is a fair number to say I never wanted to go over, though, and we did manage to stay under that. (Now, if you add in the cost of the rehearsal dinner & the honeymoon, we did go over this number but I was okay with that as these were more than just one day)

What personal aspects did you include in the wedding? 
We got married in my hometown church where I was baptized and where my family continues to go to church. We had my childhood priest say the mass, my 2 cousins serve as altar servers and our 3 parents do the readings during mass. For my “something old”, my aunt had taken a few pieces of lace from my grandmother’s wedding dress and attached it to some white satin to fashion it into a garter. This was incredibly special to me as my grandmother is no longer with us. For favors, we had made CD’s that featured special songs from the wedding. This was my husband’s idea and was how he felt he could put his mark on the wedding. He is a DJ and music is a huge part of his life. Our DJ also let him play a couple of songs during the reception. Everyone loved this part of the night and the dance floor was packed!

What was the main thing you did to save money? 
Made the centerpieces! I knew I wanted “high” floral centerpieces for ½ of the tables and when I got a quote that they’d range from $100-$150 and we’d have at least 20 tables, I was like “No way are we spending $1,500 on centerpieces for ½ the tables!” We bought the 24” vases from a wholesaler, the flowers from Michaels and Joann’s and the beads from Joann’s. We spent maybe $300 total creating all 20 centerpieces.

What advice would you give to other brides planning a wedding? 
Don’t be cheap about a photographer! (You will regret it; see next question for more details!) Plan everything out way early. Do not save projects that you can do months before the wedding to do the month or week of the wedding. The week of the wedding, all I had to do was a drop off to our reception site with the detail stuff (menus, guestbook, place cards, favors, table numbers etc.) one morning. The rest of the week I relaxed with my girlfriends and family. We had pool time and a pedicure party. People were calling me “the most relaxed bride”…Not because I’m laid back of course ;) but just because everything was done beforehand and taken care of. Be creative with your pictures; the style you take and the backdrops you use. We took the time to take pictures in the downtown city area as well as at the beach. We have so many different ones to choose from and they’re not your “typical” (read: boring) bridal party shots and we love them! Eat a few times in the morning, eat your dinner (and your cake) and always SMILE. You’re constantly getting your picture taken.

What was your biggest splurge? 
Photography for sure! We knew it was so important because (besides the marriage of course!) it’s the only physical thing you have left of the day! Also, with how fast the day flies by, there was a lot that was captured in the pictures that we didn’t necessarily get to see. We don’t regret one cent that we spent on pictures and have so many beautiful ones hanging throughout our home and in our album.

What was your favorite aspect? 
I think my favorite aspect of the wedding was just the “seeing it all come together so perfectly” as corny as that sounds. I feel like there was so much DIY and so many little details I focused on during the year and a half of planning, that to see it all come together better than I could have imagined was a dream come true.

What was your favorite DIY project? 
I think my favorite DIY project was the invitations. They were a LOT of work but in the end came out so nice that nobody knew they were DIY. That made it all worth it for me. 


Vendors
Ceremony Venue: St. Alexander's Church
Reception Venue: Quidnesset Country Club
Flowers: Flowerthyme 

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Tissue Packet Tutorial

Sorry my post is running late tonight.  We had to run to the grocery store after I got home from work and then we decided to go out to dinner.  But here it is!

I read over a couple different tutorials and then kind of winged it when I was making these.  They were super easy, but took about 10 minutes to complete each one.

What You Need
- 12x12 sheet of scrapbook paper
- Paper cutter
- Glue stick
- Bone folder (or anything else to tighten your creases)
- Xacto knife (or you could use scissors)
- Cutting mat or cardboard

1. Cut a 12x12 piece of cardstock into four 6x6 square.


2. Fold the square in half.


3. Fold one half in half again.


4. Open back up.


5. Fold each side in just a little.


6. Cut the little flaps so that they don't show when the packet is folded.


7. Fold side flaps down and apply glue to the top side of them.


8. Close packet and hold down to allow glue to dry.


9. Insert two tissues per packet and decorate in whatever fashion you want.  I don't have a picture of my finished product, but I took a hole punch and punched two holes on the flap and then tied a ribbon.  Then I glued the front flap down so it didn't stick out.

Real Registry Feature

The Knot featured our registry!  I've been emailing back and forth with one of the editors for a while and the feature went up today.  Take a look!

Ashley & Jason's Registry

First Day of Work Update

A few of you wanted me to update you after my first day of work, so here it is.  I had a really good time and really enjoy all the people in the department.  There are a lot of faculty and staff, so it's going to take me a while to learn everyone's name and keep all the information straight.  One of my job duties is to give them their mail out of their box and I keep having to ask for their name.  Oops!

As you see, I didn't have a post scheduled for this morning.  That's because I'm at work and didn't finish the project until about 11 last night, so the pictures are not uploaded yet.  But don't fret, it will be up this evening after I get home and it has a great picture tutorial to go with it.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Water Bottle Labels

Picture from Ruffled Blog

 I'm seen tons of pictures of cute water bottle labels and I knew I just had to do them.  Since our ceremony is outside, we're going to provide guests with bottles of water as they arrive.  I thought personalized labels would be a nice touch.

I designed a template in powerpoint and then printed them on cardstock.  Then, I laminated them with packing tape and then taped them on to water bottle where the stock label used to be.  I'm very happy with the way they turned out.

The pictures are of my trial bottle, so it's not perfect.  I fixed the C to where it's centered and the tape also isn't as noticeable.  Please excuse the horrible mess on my table.  I cleaned right after I took these pictures.


I'll try upload my template for you, but to hold you over, here's one over at the Ruffled Blog.
http://ruffledblog.com/2009/04/entry-25-diy-water-bottle-labels/

Hair Trial

I knew I wanted to have a hair trial before the wedding day because I wanted to make sure I liked the style.  So, on Friday I went and had a hair trial with my stylist at the Aveda Institute.  She did a fantastic job! 

Sorry the pictures suck, but they were taken on my blackberry.


I'm so glad we did the trial because we found some things that need to be changed.
1. My hair frizzes a lot, so when she curls the back on the wedding day, she's going to put shine serum on her hands so it will help fix the frizz.
2. Make the bump bigger so that it's more noticeable from the front.
3. Make the front look more natural and not so pulled back.  Part of the front also started falling down a couple hours after the trial, so she'll have to pin those back more.

Overall, I'm very happy with it though!  Did you do a hair trial for your wedding or are you going to?  Why or why not?

Sunday, February 21, 2010

I'm a Career Girl!

Well, I'm going back to work tomorrow.  I had an interview at FSU on Wednesday and I ended up getting the job!  After two months of not working, it's definitely going to be hard to start getting up at 6am again.  Wish me luck on my first day!  I'm very excited!

Saturday, February 20, 2010

$2000 Wedding Budget

Someone commented on twitter today that brides who think they can have a wedding on a $2000 budget are crazy.  That is so not true!  I've seen a couple weddings on that small of budget and it can totally be done.  There are some things you're definitely going to have to compromise on, but if have the drive to do, you can!


Venue: Look for a venue that costs little to nothing to rent.  With only $2000 to work with, you don't want to be spending the majority of your budget on renting a space.  Local parks are a very good option as well as Elk and Moose lodges.  Also, you might be able to rent out the gym at a local school for a small price.

Dress: Take a look at David's Bridal's $99 sales.  They have some gorgeous dresses.  You can also get pre-owned wedding dresses for really good prices. 

Photography: Use someone who is just breaking in to the wedding business or even a student.  You won't get the amazing quality pictures as a $3000 photographer and you're definitely taking a risk, but you might end up with awesome pictures that you'll cherish forever.

Videography: Have a friend or family member with a camera videotape the ceremony for you.  Again, it won't be professional quality, but you'll still have something to remember your day by.

Florals: They're not necessary, so if you're not a big flower person, you can easily skip them.  If you have to have flowers though, order them wholesale or buy them at the grocery store and arrange them yourself the morning of the wedding.

Food/Alcohol: Have you wedding at a non-meal time so that you don't have to serve a full meal.  That way you can get away with just doing some appetizers from the grocery store or just doing a cake and punch reception.  Also, if you have your wedding earlier in the day, people are less likely to want to drink, so you can get away with not serving any alcohol.

Paper Products: Sign up for emails at Vistaprint, and you will get tons of free offers.  You can get almost all your paper products for just shipping.  Or you could design and print all your paper products at home and you'll only have to pay for paper and ink. 

Entertainment: If you have an iPod or know someone who does, you can prepare a playlist yourself and hook it up to a speaker system and use that for dancing at your wedding.  I would recommend having a friend or family member keep and eye on it to make sure everything runs smoothly. 

See, you can have a gorgeous wedding on $2000.  You just have to be creative and figure out to make it work for you!

Friday, February 19, 2010

Dolcetto Design's Giveaway Winner

Congratulations to Nicole-Lynn from Seaside Smitten who is the winner of the giveaway!  Thanks to everyone who entered!

Catering Tasting

Let me preface this post by saying that I meant to take pictures at the tasting, but I completely forgot.  So sorry, but there aren't going to be any pictures in this post.  Don't hate me!

So, as you know, we were planning on going with Sonnys BBQ for our catering.  Well, one of my coordinators works at a local restaurant and she said that they would give us an awesome deal, so we went out there today and tasted their food.

The first thing we tried was a spring salad.  I normally skip over the salad course at restaurants, but this one was delicious.  It has spring greens, dried cranberries, roasted almonds, red onions with asiago cheese, topped with a herb shallot vinaigrette.  I could easily eat this salad every day.  He said he would lay it out on a platter, so guests could pick and choose what they wanted in their salad. 

After that, the chef brought out a gorgeous plate with 4 different choices on it.  Two entrees and two side dishes.  The side dishes were garlic mashed potatoes and julienned carrots and zucchini.  The garlic mashed potatoes were good, but a little dry.  I did not like the julienned carrots and zucchini.  They were some sauce and I just wasn't a fan.  The two entrees were a chopped sirloin with sauteed onions and mushrooms covered in a demi glase and then chicken breast served with pesto and gouda tomato sauce.  The steak was good, but it was like a cube steak and it just didn't seem like something I wanted to serve my guests.  I also hate onions and mushrooms, so that was out.  The chicken was delicious.  We decided that it was going to be a little too fancy for our guests though and not sure if they'd branch out and try to eat it.

We started debating between menus and he brought us out some pulled pork.  I was not a fan of that either.  It was kind of boring and bland.  I do not like sauce on my pulled pork, so if it's not good dry, I won't even entertain it.  My fiance liked it though because he eats his with sauce.



So, after some talking, we think this is going to be the menu for the wedding.  It will be $8.50 per person, plus a $50 delivery/serving charge.
- Spring salad with the choice of vinaigrette or ranch dressing
- Chicken parmesan pasta dish
- Carving station of roast beef with sides of mashed potatoes and green beans
- Sweet tea and water


I'm going to talk to them and see if they can throw in some kind of bread as well.  They're going to make individual vegetarian dishes for those who want them.


If you were a guest at my wedding, would you be pleased with this food?

Thursday, February 18, 2010

License to Wed

We went and got our marriage license today.  It was a quick and painless process.  It took us longer to walk from our car to the building than it did to actually get the license. 

We took the typical picture of the license in the car, but it didn't turn out so good.


So, since that one didn't turn out decent, we took another one at home.  It didn't turn out too great either because I wasn't looking at the camera.  I apparently suck at using the timer on my camera. Oh well.

Thrifty Thursday

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Giveaways
Pearls earrings at "I Do" Budget Weddings

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Reception Shoes

I don't know if I'm going to be able to stand in heels all night, so I think I'm going to pick up a pair of platform flip-flops for the reception.  I'm having a hard time deciding which pair I want though.

Here's my ceremony shoes.  They're a 3 3/4 inch heel.


Here are my choices for reception shoes.  I want the shoes to be close in heel height because I don't want my dress to be dragging on the ground.  I want them to be cute too though!

Nomad Bling.  3 inch heel.  Plastic strap and reviews say they're uncomfortable.  Comes in white or blue.


Nomad Frost.  My personal favorite in design.  2 1/4 inch heel.  Comes in either white or green.


Nomad Ice.  2 1/4 inch heel.  Reviews say they're rather comfortable.  Comes in either white or pink.


Which one would you choose and in what color?

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

DIY Tools

While I'm working on DIY projects, I feel really thankful to have certain tools to work with.  Here are my top 5 tools I recommend having in your house if you're planning on doing DIY projects.

1. Paper cutter.  A good quality paper cutter will be very valuable with any DIY projects you do.  I recommend a guillotine style cutter, but a normal sliding paper cutter will work just fine.  If you need anything more super duty for your projects, then you can always go to your local Kinkos.

2. Xacto knife.  It's so much easier to cut straight and accurate lines with an xacto knife than it is with scissors.  You have a lot more control.  I recommend keeping plenty of extra blades on hand.

3. Different size paint brushes.  You're going to need multiple different sizes with all the projects you're doing, so go ahead and stock up so you don't have to run out last minute to get the right size.

4. Glue sticks or glue dots.  Whether you're doing invitations, programs, or even tears of joy packets, you're going to need something sticky to attach things.

5. Printer.  You will save yourself a lot of money by investing in a good printer and printing all your paper products yourself.  You can use it to print everything from your invitations to your programs.


What was the most valuable DIY tool you came across while planning?

Monday, February 15, 2010

One Pretty Thing

If you haven't heard of the blog One Pretty Thing, they feature crafty round-ups from all over the blog-o-sphere.  Their round-ups range from whatever holiday is coming up soon, to printable round-ups, and even wedding round-ups. 

Well, today I was featured 4 times on their Wedding Round-up.  I am so honored to be part of such a fantastic blog.

So, if you haven't checked out One Pretty Thing, I suggest you do.  If you want to check out all their past wedding round-ups, go to the top and click on categories and then click on wedding round-ups and it will give you a list of all of them.  Great resource for DIY brides!

Vows

I haven't talked much about the ceremony here.  The reason for that...well, I can't for the life of me figure out what I want.  It's the most important part of the day and it's the one thing I've having a heck of a time with.

J wants traditional vows.

I would like traditional vows, but I want to incorporate something more modern as well.

I found these vows from Oct/Nov 2009 issue of Modern Bride and I'm in love.  The bride and groom each wrote their own vows, but I'm just going to type of the bride's because it's shorter.  If you would like to see both sets, check out page 176 of this issue.  The last line is the same in both sets of the vows.

Matt, I love you because you care for me like no one else in the world.  You make me feel loved, safe, and beautiful.  
I love you because you always take the burnt piece of French toast and let me have the one that's cooked perfectly.
I love your deep belief in me as a person and as a partner.
I promise to keep both of us in view, to remain flexible as we build the rest of our lives around one another's needs and happiness.
I promise to be here, to be the one to help you stay grounded, to be the one you come home to, in the biggest sense of that word.
I promise to always encourage you to be your fullest self, and I will gratefully accept the same in return.
I promise to continue our efforts to build a relationship founded on deep respect for partnership.
I promise to always believe in you, and in this marriage.

I really love this idea and would love to figure out a way to incorporate it into our ceremony along with the traditional "...In sickness and in health, till death do us part..."  I'm thinking if I can't find a way to incorporate it, then we can each write these into our cards to each other.  Any ideas?

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Photography Meeting

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We met with our photographer today while she was in town and nailed down some of the timing details of the day.  When the two us get together, we're bad about actually getting stuff done because we chit-chat the entire time.  We sat around for 2 hours just catching up with each other.  You think we'd have known each other our entire life.

We found out today that she's going to bring her husband as a second shooter which will be awesome.  It will be great to get some extra angles. 

We're going to start pictures of the guys at 3pm and then do the ladies at 4pm.  Then, the ceremony is at 5pm and then we'll do couples pictures afterwards.  She's also going to meet us at the salon and get some cute pictures there. 

Now that we have these details set down, me and my coordinators can start working on the day of schedule.  Everything is slowly falling into place!

Dolcetto Design Giveaway


I have a great giveaway for all my wonderful readers in honor of Valentine's Day.  Dolcetto Designs is offering a custom digital photo card design to one lucky reader.  This would be great for save-the-dates, thank you cards, or even wedding announcements.  If you're already married, you could use this as a birth announcement or invitation to a party.

Here's some of my favorite designs from them:


This giveaway is just for the digital design that will be sent to you through email in a jpeg format.  This prize does not include the printing of your cards.  You can redeem your prize any time in 2010. 

Now, here's how to enter the giveaway.  You have until Friday, February 19th at 5pm EST to enter.

Mandatory Entry: Go to Dolcetto Design's website and come back and tell me which design is your favorite.

Extra Entries: Please leave a separate comment for each entry.
1. Be a follower of my blog
2. Be a follower of Dolcetto Designs on facebook.
3. Blog about this giveaway and come back and leave me the link.
4. Be a follower of Bride on a Budget on twitter.

Also, if you completed my survey, you will get an extra entry automatically.  Do not leave a comment telling me you did this!

Remember, please leave a way for me to contact you in your comment.  If your email or blog is not available in your blogger profile, please leave your email in your comment.

Good luck!

Friday, February 12, 2010

DIY Molded Chocolates


I'm doing molded chocolates in our wedding colors as our favors.  My step-mom ordered me a few different molds and I tried them out last night.  They came out looking pretty, but I wasn't happy with the chocolate I used, so I'm going to do another trial next week with a different chocolate.


Which is your favorite design?  I would put one of each color in a bag.  I think I'm leaning more towards the rectangle ones.

Blog Demographics

I figured you might be interested in the data I collected from the survey I put up earlier this week.  Here's the demographics about the readers of the blog.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Venue Meeting & Table Mock-ups

We went out to the venue for a meeting today.  This is J's last visit out there before he leaves for training and this will be the first time either of my coordinator's saw the venue.  It was definitely have an interesting meeting, some good, some bad.  Be forewarned, there will probably be a little venting in this post.

I was very excited that when we walked into the venue, it was actually set up for an event.  That was the first time I've ever seen it set up and it looked really nice.  It definitely helps put things in perspective.


We then sat down with our site coordinator and went over some questions and money issues that we were having.  We originally thought that we would be able to fit 10 people at a 60 inch round, but with the chairs they provide, only 8 will fit comfortable at a table.  So that means we're probably going to need more tables than we originally had planned on.  Our site coordinator also mentioned a while back that she could get us all the 60 inch rounds that we needed, but now she's saying that if we need more than 10 we're going to have to rent the extras from a rental company.  That's going to be an extra hassle that we had no have planned on.

We also decided that we have no reason to use the kitchen at the venue, so we're going to have our site coordinator lock it up.  It costs $100 extra to use the kitchen, so that will definitely save us some money.  They don't have an industrial kitchen anyways, so there's not really much our caterers would be able to do in there.  So, we still have about $400 left to pay to the venue, which includes set-up and clean-up fees, as well as the tables.

While were at the venue, we did some table mock-ups so that I could see how everything would look.  Here's what we came up with:


There will be actual candles in the tealights surrounding the centerpieces so there will be a nice flicker there and then I'll probably put more rose petals around the centerpieces too.  I'm worried the tables might be too plain, but I'm not sure what else I'd put on there...

We also did a mock-up of the sweetheart table.  We tried it with both pink and green tablecloths and I think we decided to go with the pink so it will stand out from the rest of the green tables.


Our coordinators also discussed some different catering options with us that we're going to entertain.  One of my coordinators works at a restaurant who wants to branch into the wedding business, so they're going to give us a great deal on food.  She said we could get a salad course, 3 entrees, and 3 side dishes for about $8 a head.  She also said she could probably find us a bartender for a really good price.  So, I emailed them earlier to discuss that and we're going to try to arrange a tasting.

So, all in all it was a good meeting and we got a lot accomplished.  What do you think of the table mock-ups?